To be very honest, I am always apprehensive of New Year’s posts because I always thought this holiday was overrated. It’s just another day, another year, and it doesn’t really change anything. It’s also a poor excuse for us to delay goals and wishes to the New Year. All that being said, this year was […]
Do you believe in True Love? PT 2
A little over three months ago, I published my thoughts on “true love” during a very difficult time in my life. When I wrote that post, I was going through a break-up that left me feeling broken and brought up years of my failed relationships, including my painful divorce to the surface. I woke up […]
Sex and JC “He’s Just Not That Into You”
Someone really needs to write a manual for dating in 2020. Between the apps and social media dating has become confusing AF. So much so we even started a whole podcast trying to decipher what it all means. A few months ago a reader messaged me asking for my advice. A man she was seeing […]
Sex and Jersey City: So, I’m a Cougar…
I wrote this post almost two years ago when I was at the height of my cougar moment. Then things happened and then COVID and this post got lost in the draft folder. I wanted to finally publish it because it was fun to write and a fun phase in my life. Am I still […]
What dating advice would you give your younger self?
I put out a poll on social media and asked my readers “What Dating Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self” – I loved the answers so much, I had to share. You don’t need them. It only feels that way. Move along Don’t beg for anything in love Trust your intuition When it’s right […]
9 Naughtiest Holiday Party Hookup Stories
A booze-filled company holiday party can result in holiday party hookups galore. Whether sexual tension has been brewing between colleagues all year or the spiked punched got people feeling a little frisky and in the mood for some sexy holiday party hookups. But what good are these sexy holiday party hookup stories if we don’t share […]
Thank You 2020!
Today is a day we give thanks and express all the things we are grateful for. This year the Thanksgiving celebrations are going to be different but the sentiment is still the same. 2020 has changed all of our lives and forced us all to slow down and reflect on what’s really important, what really […]
8 Ways to Meet Other Single People (During a Pandemic)
It can be hard to be single right now for more reasons than one! If you’re currently single and trying to navigate the uncharted waters of dating during a global pandemic, you are not alone! Contrary to popular belief, there actually are (at least 8) ways to meet other singles in the midst of Covid-19. […]
Sex and JC: Tips on How to date a single-mom
Being single is tough, being single with a child (or a few of them) is insanity. I know for myself, I had no idea how hard things were going to be after my divorce. I thought dating would be a walk in the park and I sincerely imagined meeting the love of my life 6 […]
This was my worst date ever…
A Boob-Grabbing Pile of Garbage This was my worst date ever… Also… THIS. IS. SEXUAL. ASSAULT. I matched with Jonathan, a British advertising executive, on Bumble. After a brief introduction, he invited me to meet for brunch in Williamsburg one Saturday afternoon. After feasting on a ham and brie omelet and eggs Benedict accompanied by several flutes […]
Sex and JC: How to get over a breakup
We’ve all been there. Heartbroken. Love is hard, messy, gut wrenching, torturous but also beautiful, intoxicating, a fucking incredible feeling. There is nothing like being loved and loving someone. There is nothing like choosing and being chosen. Friendship, partnership, laughter, hugs, kisses, cuddles, sex…. I can go on and on till the break of dawn. […]
“Richard Hazan”- My father, The Rockstar
Today is my father’s 70th birthday. How do I celebrate this man that has everything? This man that has taught me everything I know about being a good human being, family member, entrepreneur and how to crush life. A renaissance man. A loving father, despite going through some crazy shit in his life, he always […]
Do you believe in true love?
Do you believe in true love? That “can’t get enough of you” love? Soul mate, ride or die, best friend, love of your life? “I want to tear your clothes off forever and ever” love? Does it actually exist, or is it make-believe? An idea that we were fed from birth? Fall in love, settle down, […]
When a divorced woman puts on a wedding dress
Yesterday was my 10-year wedding anniversary. It’s weird to say this because I’m divorced. I did a photoshoot recently and pretended to be a bride, which is probably even weirder. Say yes to the dress There’s so much emphasis on the “wedding dress.” There’s an entire industry dedicated to that one special outfit you’ll only […]
“A Woman Who Cuts Her Hair Is About To Change Her Life”
I chopped off my hair yesterday. Do you care? Probably not, but I am going to talk about this significant moment anyway. A few weeks ago, I came out and essentially killed “ChicpeaJC” – My name is Lynn Hazan. I made a decision to no longer live and work for others, and to lead life […]
“My Cousin Lynn”
When I was 9 years old “My Cousin Vinny” came out and I remember going to see it with my parents in the movie theaters. It became my favorite film (until I saw Goodfellas, but that’s for another post). Since then I have to admit, I’ve watched the movie thousands of times, this is not […]
So, You’re a Jew?
In the last few months we’ve been doing our due diligence to amplify the BLM movement; writing about protests, putting together resources, providing information, interviewing local activists and promoting Black-owned establishments. This is something we will continue doing as it is important to keep the conversation going. In the last few days there’s been some […]
My Name is Lynn Hazan
When people call me “Chicpea,” I cringe. It makes me feel uncomfortable. How did a brand, a business, a name I created make me feel so uneasy? Because it’s not me anymore. I started this platform as a hobby 6 years ago when I was working in the corporate world and was miserable with my life. […]
A Blog Post For The Parents
Parents, how are you? No but seriously, how are you? When my daughter was about 5 weeks old, I was home alone with her on my maternity leave and “she” had a total meltdown. She is me. I am she. I was having problems nursing her, she was being fussy, wouldn’t go down for her nap, […]
A Bali Love Story
A Bali Love Story. I’ve always wanted to write a romantic novel. Girl travels on a life changing trip to Bali. While exploring the beautiful island, she meets a beautiful blue-eyed solo traveler. They set off into the sunset and live happily ever after. The end. Ah, if life where only that simple. For my […]
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