To be very honest, I am always apprehensive of New Year’s posts because I always thought this holiday was overrated. It’s just another day, another year, and it doesn’t really change anything. It’s also a poor excuse for us to delay goals and wishes to the New Year. All that being said, this year was […]
A little over three months ago, I published my thoughts on “true love” during a very difficult time in my life. When I wrote that post, I was going through a break-up that left me feeling broken and brought up years of my failed relationships, including my painful divorce to the surface. I woke up […]
Someone really needs to write a manual for dating in 2020. Between the apps and social media dating has become confusing AF. So much so we even started a whole podcast trying to decipher what it all means. A few months ago a reader messaged me asking for my advice. A man she was seeing […]
I wrote this post almost two years ago when I was at the height of my cougar moment. Then things happened and then COVID and this post got lost in the draft folder. I wanted to finally publish it because it was fun to write and a fun phase in my life. Am I still […]
I put out a poll on social media and asked my readers “What Dating Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self” – I loved the answers so much, I had to share. You don’t need them. It only feels that way. Move along Don’t beg for anything in love Trust your intuition When it’s right […]
A booze-filled company holiday party can result in holiday party hookups galore. Whether sexual tension has been brewing between colleagues all year or the spiked punched got people feeling a little frisky and in the mood for some sexy holiday party hookups. But what good are these sexy holiday party hookup stories if we don’t share […]
It can be hard to be single right now for more reasons than one! If you’re currently single and trying to navigate the uncharted waters of dating during a global pandemic, you are not alone! Contrary to popular belief, there actually are (at least 8) ways to meet other singles in the midst of Covid-19. […]
Being single is tough, being single with a child (or a few of them) is insanity. I know for myself, I had no idea how hard things were going to be after my divorce. I thought dating would be a walk in the park and I sincerely imagined meeting the love of my life 6 […]
A Boob-Grabbing Pile of Garbage This was my worst date ever… Also… THIS. IS. SEXUAL. ASSAULT. I matched with Jonathan, a British advertising executive, on Bumble. After a brief introduction, he invited me to meet for brunch in Williamsburg one Saturday afternoon. After feasting on a ham and brie omelet and eggs Benedict accompanied by several flutes […]
We’ve all been there. Heartbroken. Love is hard, messy, gut wrenching, torturous but also beautiful, intoxicating, a fucking incredible feeling. There is nothing like being loved and loving someone. There is nothing like choosing and being chosen. Friendship, partnership, laughter, hugs, kisses, cuddles, sex…. I can go on and on till the break of dawn. […]
If you and your S/O are looking to spice things up this weekend, you’re in luck! There are plenty of fun, romantic, and Covid-approved activities to do that will reignite the flame between you and your lover. Here are our picks for romantic things to do with your significant other this weekend! Go to the […]
Do you believe in true love? That “can’t get enough of you” love? Soul mate, ride or die, best friend, love of your life? “I want to tear your clothes off forever and ever” love? Does it actually exist, or is it make-believe? An idea that we were fed from birth? Fall in love, settle down, […]
Nikki Zimmer Nelson is the creator of TheSingleSociety.com. She currently resides in Hoboken with her husband (who she met on Bumble after experiencing the absurdity of online dating) and working in digital marketing. She clearly enjoys recording the ridiculous debauchery that is the modern dating scene. Nikki is also partial to a tall glass of […]
While Lynn was traveling in Bali, co-hosts Alex and Vinny sat down to talk about Vinny’s experience with both men and women partners throughout his life. In this episode, they talk about everything from emotional connections to sexual preferences. You can listen to all of our episodes on Soundcloud, Spotify and now on Apple Podcasts!
A Bali Love Story. I’ve always wanted to write a romantic novel. Girl travels on a life changing trip to Bali. While exploring the beautiful island, she meets a beautiful blue-eyed solo traveler. They set off into the sunset and live happily ever after. The end. Ah, if life where only that simple. For my […]
Oral sex – how important is it? This week, the crew talks about all things oral and dives deep into how crucial it can be for some sexual relationships. You can listen to all of our episodes on Soundcloud, Spotify and now on Apple Podcasts!
Host Lynn Hazan introduces new co-hosts Vinny & Alex and talks all about her personal experiences being a “Cougar”. She also reveals that her “dick cleanse” is finally over thanks to a hot 25 year old. Good times. Things are getting saucy on season 2! Check us out on Soundcloud, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.
In this episode, host Lynn talks about her 4-month break from dating with co-hosts Anatalie David and DJ Dramos with the help of our readers. Are dating cleanses necessary? When is it time for a dating cleanse? Check us out on Soundcloud, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.
“Ghosting is breaking off a relationship (often an intimate relationship) by stopping all communication and contact with the partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as ignoring the partner’s attempts to reach out or communicate. The term originated in the mid-2000s. In that following decade, media reported a rise in ghosting, which has […]
This month, we are launching Match Me Chicpea, where we’ll be matching local singles on blind dates. For our inaugural event, we collaborated with NYC Cycleboats and brought together 12 singles on a boat – it was awesome! Starting at 7PM, our host NYC CycleBoats provided a unique way to get some exercise and enjoy […]